Henwen, forgive me if I'm a little fuzzy on your sitch. I know you work with H, but is he your boss? The fact that he can just send you home like that - that must be horrible. And I'm sure that makes it harder for you to detach.
About your turning point - we're all human. By not arguing and being happy, are you saying things were getting better for you, or better for y'all? Just trying to make sure you're not intending to "nice" your way back into the M.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18