MLC or WAS... either way, I'm here

[peacetoday]

Hi

I think it all part of the process to try to understand what we did..how much of this was our fault ect
I read somewhere that MLC is caused by unresolved childhood issues
Because as we read threads here and see our H go through it
rarely do we see a MLCer leave a M and family and go on to create a new and wonderful life
Usually they loose jobs, breeze through partners, lose most contact with kids and family of origin...become addicted and rack up debt

This shows people in great crises most of them leave stable environments
but few of them seem stable especially as time goes on

this would prove the crises has more to do with them than with the issues of the M
because after D and the controlling wife is gone..they go downhill
the crises is in them

Have a good weekend also!