Quick question for any body out there. Or maybe just an observation or errant thought on my part.
My WW is having an emotional affair with this jerk three states away, as i have said. It has been a 7 month ordeal so far. She has seen him twice iun that time.
She said her main reason for emotionally disconnecting with me and connecting with him was that i neglected some emotional and physical needs that i did not fulfill for a few months.
So she started an affair with him to fulfill them , right?
Here's my question
Given the length of the A, and the fact that it is all over the phone, How are these needs being fulfilled by the OM at this point.
I get in the begining he said all the right things to her, but it just seems that facetiming, and calling and telling her he "Loves" her would be getting a little old without the displays she said she was needing, IE hugs, kisses, hand holding Etc. A little tough to do over the phone.... As well as the sexual component. It would seem that 7 months of words and promises over the phone would be getting a bit old, especially since she can only call between 5p and 7p. She still cannot get that aspect. If he is single, and if he was that into her it wouldnt really matter when she called. If it were me in his shoes, Id tell her to call whenever, and id be coming up here at least every other weekend. It only costs 120$ round trip...... I know he hasnt because she has not had the time due to work and home to be out and away from the house long enough. Just curious what an outsider might make of this observation. Dont read anything into it, like i said just curious. thanks guys!


M 51 W 46
D14 S13
M 16yrs
T17yrs
BD 06/25/17
OM Confirmed 06/25/17, ILYBNILWY
Did Sep for 1 month, moved back in due to W Finances