Some posters need help pushing back against spouses who are constantly taking from the LBS. Others need help learning to step up.
It can cause problems when people take the wrong advice.
Excellent.
Completely agree.
Think there is a fear that when the WAS requests something, the LBS sees themselves as being "used", so they push back to show them 'you walked out - don't expect me to be there anymore' - rather than see the situation for what it is. But as mentioned previously the rules aren't RULES, but pointers to a more open/self confident/controlled lifestyle and they would never encroach on the basic fundamentals of being a Father. (not aimed at you LC)
