Haha Btrow. No problem. I like to read posts in my thread I can definitely see that she could be an MLCer too... however that doesn't really change anything for you.
Today was a weird day. My D did something really stupid and XW was really down about it. We were both telling her not to do that and she has to go ask for an apology now from a friend/friend's mom. XW started crying and I automatically made the posture that I could give a hug, and I really mean that I didn't even consider her my XW anymore but just as a person needing a hug... This could definitely be seen as pursuit, lol. I just understood what I did after she shaked her head.
I tried to validate as well as I could. Offered to stay to feed S and talk to D. She said she appreciated it. She communicated much more otherwise too via text today. About random things not directly related to kids.
It's now two months till the divorce is through. I don't see it changing... Well, I saved one marriage with the knowledge I've gathered.
In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced 2 young kids new relationship
I can definitely see that she could be an MLCer too... however that doesn't really change anything for you.