I’m sorry if I’ve offended anybody on these boards especially you it’s not my intention. I apologise.
Sandi what I meant about you being the perfect example was that of a WW who has RC her MR sorry for any confusion. You’re well respected around here and I had hoped to use your example to outline that RC is indeed a viable solution.
What has come from this recent series of posts is the actual amount of experience people have had with RC, AS, 2016sux to name but two AND the percentage that did actually try OR wanted to try RC was/is indeed quite high in their personal experiences! It’s just so unfortunate that there are so many MR that have to go through these horrendous times.
What I will leave everybody with is this:
Please patience is key try and stretch out your situations and don’t be forced into filing too soon. If you can outlast the limerence phases and if you want to have a chance at RC you must manage the time, for me to see my children grow up to be more rounded and complete individuals spurs me on.
D is not an option.
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DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".