I want to feel that way about my partner in life. He is a good guy, he does all the things--remorse, great at validation, awesome dad and co-housekeeper, and he is all in--but my heart is not in it. He still had an A and left me for this ugly mistake. So while there are so many things I like about my H more now, the history is and will always be there. Will I learn to accept and embrace that over time? I can't say yet.
Hi blu....does your H know that you are struggling? Do you think you have changed as a person and that is why you are having a hard time accepting and embracing? Do you feel as though you deserve better? Or is it simply trying to resolve, process and move past your anger? I ask because obviously overcoming the A piece is probably the most difficult challenges each of us will face if we get to the point your at.
