So we must learn to accept what we do NOT understand or we will stay stuck in the limbo land of "asking why"...
I remember reading a post from one of the old-timers about the LBS wanting to have answers and them feeling like answers are owed to them. The vet essentially said that there are many things in life that happen to us that we never know the answers to when we die. Why would this situation be any different. It's good to keep that into perspective but it is soo hard to not mind read
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Now, h has not seen our kids in a year or more. Not talking to them either. S31 said "we have all been replaced." Ouch.
It is crazy to here such stories from a Women's point of view. I could never imagine not being there for my D's ever and just going off the deep end. How did you handle it personally? How young were your children at that time and how have they adjusted? What did you say to them?
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He told my bro "the kids aren't talking" to him and my brother said h "sounded very subdued, hurt, tired."
Well, that ^^was news to me.
Turns out, Facebook and the way they appear in front of us, are NOT autobiographical documentaries.
True, true......I have to remember that. I have had many people who are good friends of ours comment that my W does not appear to be the same. She is not the same happy, energetic person they once knew. My W doesn't talk to any of our former family friends and has surrounded herself with a completely different crew.
