Limerence and My Situation 5

[joejoe1]

Mark,

Your post/thread yesterday was awesome. I think it made everyone who read it think harder. And that always help.

I'm in agreement with Maika on the recon situation. I think waiting is up to the LBS, I think leaving a crack in the door and making to road paved smooth like 25 said is important. But, a constant reassessment of each of Sitch has to be taken. Like you Mark, I agree that me any my wife or soulmates, but I know she has to feel and know that. I also, have come to the conclusion, that I might not never fully close the door on her, but I will move forward and enjoy my life. I also think if she leaves, she will come back and that's where the crack in the door is important, it will never be wide open again.

Coming here has made me stronger and wiser and I'm grateful for every person, that has commented on my thread. Holding, AS, 25, Sandi, J9, Maika, TxHubby, LH19, Rose, Tread, and You. To be honest, we have a special relationship with each other. We have shared out darkest days with each other, and that's not easy to do. I have met Holding personally and it was great experience I will never forget.

I also think we have educated ourselves so much in this process that we will become a blessing to others.

Your statistical outlook is great for all of us, and I hope you keep posting, it's another point of view, and I enjoy seeing people with hope on here.

Keep pushing, and don't BLOW UP THAT LAST BRIDGE!