Limerence and My Situation 5

[Parkema]

Hello All,

Wow didn’t expect that amount of responses to my recent posts BUT can understand why it stirred the nest so to speak, I’m going to do a last post and then back off and stalk instead for a while and let things settle down somewhat.

I would like to challenge many responses I’ve received lately but just can’t be bothered my posts are misinterpreted most of the time, not only that but crash helmets cost lots of money and now have a painkiller addiction.

Sandi you are a perfect example of what I am trying to get across here but am obviously not eloquent enough to portray it through words. I’m sorry but I have lots of questions for you but understand if you would like to refrain from answering.
1. Am I right in thinking you RC your MR?
2. Can I ask how difficult it was for you to go back to your LBH and ask him for another chance?
3. Did your LBH give you the SLIGHTEST indication that RC could be achieved?
4. Would you have done it sooner if he had left a “crack” open for RC?

I think you’ll know why I’m asking these questions.

Sandi you’ve helped me a great deal with my own situation, without you I would never have known about the MNG syndrome and the actual mindset of a WW so I do appreciate your input truly.

My biggest problem and the reason I get all the 2x4’s is that I’m very logical I work with statistics it’s what I do! If we look deep into our lives statistic are everywhere and help us without actually knowing it. Now with A’s there’s the emotional element to factor in and I appreciate that BUT that’s very biased to each separate situation.

Sorry I believe in RC even with WW’s ^^^^^^^ I believe somewhere down the line there will be the opportunity it’s what I do UNTIL this point I’m berated for. I TOTALLY feel we would see more MR’s RC’ed if we just step back and try and stretch out our timelines, I agree that detachment and NC and GAL’ing has a part to play with us getting to that point and a byproduct of this could be the LBS “moving on” but for ME I intend to continue what I’m doing and see what happens in time.

Will I have moved on who knows but at this present time I intend to continue what I do and work towards RC. If I’m STILL here in 3-years’ then I’ll take all the 2x4’s you can give me and a “we told you so” in big bold capital letter.

M.