Advice from you great people please. What should be the occasion for one-off checking of cell messages? As I have stated previously I am not actively doing this any more and it has done me the world of good. However one of the features of her new phone is an encrypted partition which I noticed has been activated (I did cop a v quick look at her apps menu). Cell messages can't go in there. Think it would have to be in the light of rekindled deep suspicions....

Me 55, W 50
D 8
M 20
T 27
MIL w/ us
BD 01/02/17
workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA)
OM senior manager, long term W, child 14
now: limbo (my choice)

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