What do you mean about bullying me? How is she bullying me, she tries to manipulate me, with implications, but it don't work.
I'm asking you. Based on her saying she told you she was going to be this way b/c she wants space. Is that a threat? Bullying tactics? "If you don't do what I want (get out), I will make you miserable" type of thing?
Would this be new, for her to get what she wants by using her bad moods/temper? I have seen that characteristic run in a lot of what I call "spoiled" WW's. If you have NGS, then you may be use to walking on egg shells.
I wanted to get a feel in how you looked at her "warning".
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!