Lost on how to save my marriage! 4

[joejoe1]

Sandi,

I haven't seen signs of her talking to the OM. About 3 weekends ago, I told to get her stuff and get out after I a FB messenger thread between them two. She refused, then I told her, you can continue to talk to him and leave, or you can stop and stay. She sent the OM a message in front of me, saving she had to stop talking to him. Is she still talking to him, maybe.

What do you mean about bullying me? How is she bullying me, she tries to manipulate me, with implications, but it don't work.

Chris73,

She pushed for the MC. She told me she wanted it ASAP. Once I set it up, she said she was scared, because of what might come out of it. She also suggested we take different cars. I don't have any intentions on being defensive. If she said she wanted a divorce in this session, it won't surprise me. I have accepted that I can't control the outcome. Also, I want to ask her out on a date, but I don't know if she is ready for that. If MC goes ok/good, I might ask her out of Friday, if it don't she has already planned to stay by her parents.

Chris, reading all the other treads, has scared me a little on how MC can go, but it also has prepared me.

Thanks for all the info and suggestions.