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Re: Limerence and My Situation 4
LH19 #2764286 10/04/17 05:38 AM
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Originally Posted By: LH19
If you are confident in who you are and know your value as a man, why would you ever tolerate your W banging another dude?


Bob's your uncle.
Re: Limerence and My Situation 4
LH19 #2764287 10/04/17 05:52 AM
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If you are confident in who you are and know your value as a man, why would you ever tolerate your W banging another dude?


LH....back in da hizzy! I think the only reason would be the desire to keep your family together. That said if I had confirmation my W was doing it I would be gone. It's taking everything I have as it is to be patient without any confirmation.

Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018
Re: Limerence and My Situation 4
Anchor #2764289 10/04/17 06:20 AM
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2016sux, are you sure you really understand DBing detaching?
I mean, have you seriously read about through it?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Re: Limerence and My Situation 4
TBSakaJ9 #2764295 10/04/17 06:29 AM
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Originally Posted By: Joseph9
That said if I had confirmation my W was doing it I would be gone.

That's because you put in the work and are making progress and now realize that you do not have to tolerate it.
Re: Limerence and My Situation 4
LH19 #2764298 10/04/17 06:33 AM
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That's because you put in the work and are making progress and now realize that you do not have to tolerate it.


You got that right LH......as my mentor I always refer back to your previous posts, be patient, I think you got a shot. At this point it is for my children, I am good either way.

Last edited by Cadet; 10/04/17 06:35 AM. Reason: Start a new thread message
Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018
Re: Limerence and My Situation 4
TBSakaJ9 #2764311 10/04/17 08:12 AM
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