Stop Bull$hitting yourself. Your W is an adult and can make her own choices.
You keep doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result. Einstein called that INSANITY.
LH19, thanks for the input, but with all due respect, have you been following my threads recently? While granted I did not handle the initial or even middle stages of this at all well, there is at least some hope, now. Even Sandi2, who is as hard as they come and who carries as big a 2x4 as anyone, has said so.
Doing the same thing? I have switched up so much in the last month it isn't even funny. Stopped monitoring (until JUST the past day or two which BOTH DB coach and IC and Sandi2 said would be appropriate in a measured fashion to check up on her periodically), Stopped pressuring, started validating...
Exactly what are you saying I am doing wrong right here. I am always open to suggestions but I see none here...
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
