WW in EA, NC w/OM(?), W's BFF interfering, part 7

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Do you really think they did not communicate during that month? Why would they not have stayed in contact?

They did stay in touch, but it was much less frequent. BFF was away alot, at family out of state and then visiting her AP in Florida. I still see the phone records each month (I monitor my kids' usage about once every week or two so I am not all that troubled by sneaking a "peak" at her phone records-- she knows I am checking and I assume would naturally figure I'd peek at hers as well), and while they were in touch then it was nowhere near as frequently as it is now (multiple texts a day and usually at least one or two phone calls totaling up to an hour.) For those few weeks there were times they'd go three or four days without talking. One time I think it was 5 (after Friday's incident, I went back and checked the records for past month or so). It definitely seemed to ramp up at the point where my own bff got fed up with my wife's bff (his STBXW) and her crap and said "see ya" and took a sabbatical (he owns his own business) to Florida... Where he promptly began a relationship with my W's BFF's AP's W. (follow? This set off a real S-storm, and my W's BFF, who just a week before had been saying how "amazing" her STBXH was being through all of this (all of this being her sleeping with his then-best-friend, indicating she was going to run off with him permanently, and oh by the way I'm taking the kids to Florida) then started throwing a continuous temper-tantrum and trashing my friend (and his friends, including me) to anyone who would care to listen. So I would assume a fair amount of the increased communications involve her complaining about her H and the divorce proceedings (which are moving very close to being final.) I try not to discuss it with my W because, even though she grants that "what bff did was wrong and everyone knows it", that is now in the "past" and everyone should just try to be happy, but her H is now being difficult, ignoring the kids, etc. etc. She (my W) is obviously only getting one side of the story here, but she is not at all interested in hearing the other (I tried once, failed, and haven't tried again-- honestly don't want to get mixed up in that S-show.)