The quicker you can get past your anger and come to a sense of peace the better of your recon chances will be. Stable, steady, emotionless, gently steering the ship.

It is hard because when your W is banging some other dude the male ego takes over. You have to overcome your own ego if your going to stay the course. Be confident in who you are, your value as a man and even though this is happening you always know that no matter what your the best option.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018