...those were all WH weren't they. I think they a more likely to come back than WW.
Yeah, I have mostly women friends. I do have a guy friend in our sitch, but his WW is still waffling about OM.
It's interesting you say that because I've heard the same about WHs - less likely to come back. Once a man makes up his mind and all that...
Holding - agree with you totally that a return, if on the cards, exceeds in timescale what the LBS is prepared for. When this first happened to me, I consulted my guy friend who was also near the beginning of his sitch. We both counselled each other to hang on for one year. 16 months later and nothing's changed.
I heard on a Christian standing podcast, nice lady Charlyne who cares, that most returns are around the two year mark. But at the same time I know I haven't detached and probably won't until I've lost all hope and given up, which is probably exactly when WH will waltz back in. When I really don't want him back. Forget the law of attraction, it's Sod's Law we should be discussing.
Joejoe and Maika - excellent points about the quality of our detachment. I don't know how to detach without being cold. Too painful without a hardened heart.
