Limerence and My Situation 4

[joejoe1]

Maika,

That's my point, I read most people Sitch and how I read them, are that their detachments are cold and angry. Their interactions are get in and get out. IMO, that's weak, that comes off as weak. A person with confidence approaches every person with love and positivity IMO, even a person that has hurt you. I can't see how any person would want to return to a person that totally cuts them off. I think we as LBS can keep a crack in the door while still moving on with our lives.

I'm not saying you say, "hey there's a chance". I'm saying every time a WAS sees a LBS it should be a positive interaction and the last moments of that interaction, should be done with a smile and happiness and joy of the LBS part. I know it's hard for us as LBS, to find joy and happiness in this process, but if we truly can get that spot while still in regular interaction with a WAS, we can turn the tide a bit. It's a hard journey, but every Vet on here has said this will be the hardest thing we ever have done in our lives.