Lost on how to save my marriage! 4

[joejoe1]

Update,

So, on Sunday wife and I had a fall out. I told her I was tired of her attitude. She informed me that she told me she would be that way, and she needed space. She implied I should leave our home, I told her I wasn't leaving our home. She informed me she needed space so she could have time to heal. I told her I felt the same way.

On Monday, she had a long phone call, I think with her father. After phone call she informed me, that she want to go to M counseling, so we could work on our communication. I set up an appointment for Thursday with a counselor at the church I'm attending. My wife informed she was scared of counseling because of what would come out.

Also, Monday was a really good day, we talked all day and she told me how much I had hurt her, because of some of the things I did. She told me she was really angry at me, that I made her feel like I she really didn't matter to me and she thought I was sleeping with another woman, because, I wasn't touching or really pursuing her for years. She said Monday was a really good day for us. She was touchy and playful. On Tuesday, she was talkative still and not angry or moody.

We have our first counseling session tomorrow, I hope it goes well, but I have read on here how they can really go bad. I have been to this counselor and she provided me with a lot of good info, when I saw her.