I get the same impression as Btrow about the WH/WW differences. But AS's stats include WWs.

I think the bottom line is that the decision to come back is MUCH later than the LBS expects. It's all down to how long you can live in limbo vs. getting on with your life.

Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.