Any Advice 2

[gw5263]

These are small day trips with the kids while they are out on fall break. Im not doing it for her, im doing it for them, its something they want to do. They wanted her to go, and im not about to make thier lives any harder than they are right now. regardless of what shes done to me, she is still thier mother. Ill not use the kids to punish her or the situation to affect the kids. As far as the disrespecting me goes, what do you suggest i do? ban her from any interactions with the kids and I? I cant cage her and make her stop her affair. I can make her see how much fun doing things as a family is. I can let her see what she will be losing if she continues down her path. And trust me, no one in this family is under the illusion that we are all happy right now, trust me. These kids are going through something right now that no one thier age should have to endure.