Limerence and My Situation 4

[Parkema]

DISAGREE...

Time is the master to our R's and whatever they evolve into NOT some ways to approach them. DB, DR 180's... Just tools for what?

I use these tool plus others to aid me. Again with TIME I'll evolve into someone who will physically and MENTALLY detach and to be brutally frank how do you know where I'm at..! I personally feel and again that's who counts here that I have indeed detached from her I'M CARING LESS AND LESS WHAT SHE'S DOING.

Time will change the dynamics of EVERYTHING it’s the law of nature, things rot and go bad. In a R it’s how this TIME is managed that counts. We must all agree that over TIME our MR rotted and turned bad, it must have or we wouldn’t be here… Unless they really are the soulmates for each other then so will theirs, limerence and the phases is based on FACT which is based on TIME.

How I choose to work through this period is based on all the information given to me from these boards, the DR book and again the FACTS and STATS of A’s.

I do care that I'm slated for trying to manage my situation in a way that gives me the best opportunity to succeed in RC AND NOT D!

Rose - "I'm not convinced" I don't care! You may have read my posts but I'm either lousy at explaining myself or you just don't understand.
• Detachment - left FH spend minutes when handing over kids. CHECK
• NC - no texts, emails, calls at all just F2F see above. CHECK
• GAL - too many to go into BUT have had to change the visitation plans between WW and I for the past 3 Saturdays due to me GAL'ing. CHECK
• 180 - staying out and away from my home over night, totally unheard of for me. CHECK

I just don't have the TIME to think about her BUT she's always there due to my situation I CAN'T CHANGE THAT.

Can you honestly say you never think about what your WS is doing even for a second, it doesn’t come into your mind..? Honestly…

I may have an issue with the realization of what she's done to me but that is only human. She was my best friend, someone I TOTALLY trusted for over 12 years...

What will happen next…? TIME WILL TELL.

M.