Living in limbo and hating it

[Painful]

I would just ask her why she's having her purchases sent to your address.

I could but I don't really want to have that conversation unless I decide that it's unacceptable for her to do that regardless of the reason. I personally don't feel it's a big deal one way or the other but I wanted to get the vets' and/or female perspective to see if it comes across as her disrespecting me, doormat-ish, pathetic, temp-checking, etc.