Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc


not sure what you mean.

As for the kids and not going to visit, just curious have you ever gone? And Is it all really b/c you needed to stay behind?

How did she feel about that?



I meant that getting a D is not hoing to undo me telling my sister...my W was mad I told her.

Yeas, I travel out of town a lot with my W and kids...just not every single weekend she does. Our families live in two other cities 1.5 and 4 hours away. I visit with my W for every holiday, including long weekends like Labor Day. My W goes to literally every Birthday party...for all 10 of our kids cousins and all 16 adults...literally every other weekend.

My wife probably wanted me to go with her all the time early on in our marriage, but I would stay home many times to paint rooms, catch up on work so I could be home earlier on weekdays, etc. More recently, she preferred for me to not be there on trips.


M 17 years
3 kids
EA start 2010
ILYBNILWY 1/2014
PA 1/2016
Bomb drop 2/2016
Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016
Living as roommates, EA continues