D17 was questioned about her week-end when he brought D15 back on sunday.. what she did, where we went and why.
She was reluctant to share with him. Eventually, she told him we went to look for a car for her. He got upset. Then, he asked her if she wanted that 1k or wait and spend it with him. Again, she did not know what to answer. He asked if she felt bad for taking it and she answered: kind of.. again, he got upset and told her he was trying to do something nice for us and it only got people upset.. said he was upset and left.
A series of text were sent to her apologizing and car suggestions he had found on line ( ) .
Tonight, Son came over and also had his father present this week. Ex-h bought him a new phone and gave him the rest of his 1k. Son does not expect ex-h to look or follow through with the financial responsability. ( neitter do i but i know my kids are ok regardless ).
Son can see ex-h making an effort for a short while and then go back to his old ways.. We'll see..
As for us, me and D17 visited D21 last saturday. She had not heard from ex-h's financial plan. She did however have a conversation with him where he asked why dhe did not share a regular, everyday stuff with him. She told him she had a job interview and would get the answer in the following week..
When she did, she told herself: he showed interest so i' ll tell him.. she texted him: I got the job!!!!
No answer... In her mind: there, this is why i don' t bother... you don' t care...
It is hard for me to move on cause he is brought up so often.. it' s like he is constantly present.
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