Kinder, i made a lot of mistakes post acute BD. Mainly in Choosing my lawyers. Other people drink or do drugs. It was an emotional time and we learned from our mistakes. Just do whats best for you and your children.

I dated someone over a uear post BD. And it was one of those wtf was i thinking. Im glad i never ibtroduced him to my son.

Im not really sure when we are healed enough to start dating again though. Im 2.5 years post BD now and still not sure. I think the basic advise i am getting is to take it slow and juat build friendships which is what im doing.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer