Limerence and My Situation 4

[CW2017]

CW – Respect is key here, look into the boundaries thread here and research it “cake eating” is a key issue, we need to look at our situations much like being on a see-saw we need to gain that balance. We can’t have the cake eating as that can go on forever, who would blame someone having the best of both worlds? The DR’ing detachment, NC needs to be adhered to BUT catered for OUR particular situation. Am I right in saying you live in the same house still? I was in this situation and asked WW to leave and be with AP/LO, she refused and it started to get very stressful/toxic for my boys and I so had no choice but to move out of the FM for OUR own sanity.

Hi Mark
domestic setup is my W, DD and MIL under the same roof. This makes the whole thing rather tricky to say the least. But things are really intimate now (much before than before BD) and I have really stepped up. I am just, without rug sweeping or NG "nicing" a resolution, carrrying on until things take a turn for the worst as it is a very important time period for my DD at the mo.

see ya