Limerence and My Situation 4

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I have a timeframe I’m working towards after this point and if the A continues then I look at it differently with a different approach, let’s hope I don’t get to that stage…

Mark, I know you won't reveil your timeframe, but maybe you could give us a small hint. Are we anywhere near, well.. the 36 month mark?

Is 3-year timeline a pretty common benchmark with WWs or WAWs? It sure seems that way. I've seen it a couple of times here, heard it mentioned by other marriage coaches (at least 1), and also personally know of two couples with WAWs (no infidelity befire S though as far as I know) who reconciled after about 3 years as well. Any input from the board vets on this based on what they've seen here over the years?