Even if it was rude - the real question is... is there truth there?
If we only focus on the first - then we don't have to deal with the truth question. If we never ask the truth question, we never have to change.
It's an excuse..and for your H - that has seemed like the place where he continues to get caught up in. He has to focus on you - because if he truly focused on him, he would have to change...
... and that has been what overwhelms him. For a long time it seems.
M(f): 43 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
