They are not mistakes. Take the information you learned from those scenarios and apply it for the next time. We can only go off what we know and try. We are testing certain encounters as well. It didn't go well, but now you know, for the next encounter that happens. You can damp your expectations and take what she is telling you at face value for the moment.
Our spouses will be roller coasters. The will be up and down, decided and undecided from day to day. We have to be the ones that stand firm on what we want and need for ourselves. There is only uncertainty with our S. We don't have a clue on the outcome either. So for us as LBS, the one thing we can be certain of is becoming better, because that's all we can control. It's hard to become happy in these Sitchs but it's not impossible. But redefining the impossible has been happening since the beginning of time.
It's no more you play off of her feelings, start playing off of your feelings only, detach. Happiness bequeath happiness, joy bequeaths joy, and positive bequeaths positive.
Don't become happy, joyful, or positive for nobody but Holding. I know you can do it.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
