A city full of men and W decided to pursue this guy. This guy isn't even a stud. Just an overweight guy who is cool. Its like she wants to push the limits to see if I will turn back into that early 20 something. OR she likes that you are still so enmeshed in what she is doing. You are spinning inside, and planning to confirm to her that you are so Not detached.
Her behavior sounds like it's out of high school, or from a very wounded position. No, I'm not blaming you. I'm merely observing how odd it is for a woman her age (or any recently sep woman)
to pursue a guy her h works with, and somehow do it in a way her h is sure to learn of.
You don't see that as something to detach from or ignore?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016