Limerence and My Situation 4

[Btrow]

Aheeeem AS, hate to be the Internet Police here :

I've related this story before in other threads, but back when I was going through S and D I spent a lot of time asking my male friends and relatives about their own divorces. These were all guys that had a WAS, not the other way around. None of them were DB'ers, but some of them just naturally took a DB approach while others did not. Now granted this is a small sampling, I think we're talking about 15 people. Of those, only 2 of them reconciled. So that would be, 13%? So you might look at this and say "AHA AS, see I told you, even in your own experience barely more than 10% reconciled!!" But guess what, I asked all those LBS's how many of their WAS's approached them about recon. Are you ready to hear this? 100%. Every last one of them.

From what he's told me (mainly what he hears from their kids) she certainly doesn't sound happy in her R, but that never equated into her reaching out to recon.

So you didn't even bother to ask your own brother in that little survey you made back then