Well, I don't know what a judge might say, I'd just encourage you to protect yourself. I think some guys pay more during the separation b/c they want to show their W they love them and are willing to take the bunt of expenses. However, it often turns on the H........and like you said, he has to continue taking it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
