It's a lie, because that wouldn't be the reason for me leaving. The reason would be the guy I trusted would be messing with my W. And it actually would make perfect sense. It would be looked at as him taking advantage of his position, which is recruiting volunteers. It would be looked at badly for messing with someone else wife.
We live in the bible belt of all places and it would be look bad on the organization, which is why they gave strict rules for us on the committee. So imagine how they do their employees. And the excuse she came at me wouldn't fly. Nobody is out to get this guy. If you look above, I actually respect and like the guy. But if he is doing dirt, then the blame is on him for putting his job at risk.
If I had my way, I would be able to enjoy the position I signed up for without my W messing things up. But apparently she is determined to make things difficult. After the divorce and they got together, then it would be no issue. And hopefully by then, I would have performed my duties and moved on. But right my W is in the wrong. And I am searching for the best way of handling it without having to quit or give a bs excuse for leaving. No longer going to run from W. That logic is what lost her respect to begin with.
