Everyone is right, it is much to early for me to feel this safe. I have continued to be detached and it is still much easier than it was just a few weeks ago. One thing that has helped in all of this is I was constantly checking phone records to see who/when she was texting. Once I let go of that, things got much easier. I'm sure if I started logging in and checking that again I'd be right back to my pitiful self. Anyway, the detachment really seems to have helped things at home quite a bit. My wife and I have been working with the kids as a team lately instead of in shifts. We help them with their homework together and get them ready for school together. The kids really enjoy it. My wife seems much happier these last few days but that could be for any reason but since I no longer pry in to her life, I dont really care...its just nice to have her happy while she's around the house. Well, thanks again for all the advice and will continue to update. She'll be home from work any minute now so I'm off to my boxing class
Me: 43 Wife: 37 2 Kids: (8yr old B, 5yr old G) OM Discovered Mid Aug '17
