I've learned through this process many things. The main one I think is that if what I do, be it snooping, texting or whatever affects me in a negative way.......
Then I won't do it. After my first H left me (we were very young) I was filled with hate and anger. I'm determined to not do that again. Why? Because it has a negative affect on ME.
If I text H, it's because I want to. If he doesn't answer that's fine. If he does I may respond straight away or not, it's up to me.
I'm in control. I want you to be too. Eight years is far too much of your life to invest in this.
Please let go of the hate....for your sake (((cwtch)) to you from Wales.
