I find that my W is nice to me usually because she's feeling very guilty about everything. Right now with the move, she's like what do you need? can i help? can i clean? Im like - get outta here, I don't need your help lol.
I am sure she's trying to be kind, but I really don't have any space within myself to receive her help after all this.
Your W might be nice to soften the convo if it's going to be a difficult one, or it could be because of the reasons you noted.
