The reason why I haven't reported this guy is because I wasn't sure. No one is quick to get this guy. I actually like the guy and was becoming friends with him prior to seeing what my W was up to. The man is actually great at his job, which is good for the community. This has nothing to do with making myself a victim. It's about finding the best way of handling a possible sitch without once again without sacrificing my needs.
Never said this guy waa a villoan in any way. And I am 100 percent sure, he is doing no pursuing. But I know she is. If he is doing the right thing, then I have no intent on telling his boss if he is turning down my W. But if I find out that he took up that offer, then I may have to tell. By doing that he would be risking his position. Which is a offense he would get fired for.
My IC says I should confront him to see if my W has made advances towards him. I have no intent on accusing him of anything. But I am interested in seeing how low my W us willing to go knowing that I am trying to do positive things with this organization.
Now people on here are telling me that I should just quit without giving a reason once again to cover up for my no good WE. So when do these consequences for my WW come in? Because once it seems that Inam being told to be the bigger person potentially at my own expense. We're told to improve and make ourselves better. I did that by working with this organization.
