could you perhaps clarify something for me? You say your wife is pursing this man, but you have no idea whether or not this man has taken her up on her pursuits? But this guy is a villain? He risked his position?
Or do you know this guy is the one pursuing your wife? Because it really isn't fair to get this guy fired if you wife is the one after him and not vice versa. I may have missed what HIS bad action were, that is why I am clarifying.
I would highly suggest your try your best to get out of victim mode. We have all suffered because of our spouses choices. Heck, my D was 9 years ago, and his choices still impact my life. But I sat in victim mode for so long and guess who suffered? Me, not him. So these days, I acknowledge the anger I feel when I realize this divorce has impacted something negatively in my life, then I move past it and do my best with what I got.
