Hey Dale, my advice is to move on with your life because she didn’t care enough to stay with you so why are you giving her the power to stress yourself out? As soon as I went minimal contact with my STBXH, my mind and sanity was clear. Love is not supposed to hurt. Love is suppose to be reciprocated and if it’s meant to be, it’ll happen. In the mean time, continue to work on you so that YOU can be happy. Waiting on her to be happy is a form of codependency and I was at one point in that stage. You want a partnership, not someone to depend on you for happiness. Will you check out the chumplady website for more clarity?
Me: 37 H: 32 S:10 D: 9 Married: 11 years Sep: 6/25/17 D filed: 7/13/17
