roist, since my sitch went by so fast, I cannot understand what you have gone thru for this long. I did however have a suggestion as to what you and your W could do together. It is hard to come up with things, but some friends of mine each wrote out a list of activities that they each wanted to do...a bucket list if you will. They then compared the lists and picked one that overlapped. They took up sailing and now can go out together and enjoy themselves.
Another thing that he had stated is that he will invite his W to go do an activity that he really enjoys, but that she has never shown an interest in. He said by doing that she has learned why he really enjoys what he does. After that she invited him...He says that it has kept things fresh for them. They have been together since 1988 and M since 1993.
I have learned this since my sitch began...I so wish that I was able to take my W to play golf or to hunt and fish. These things I did without her to get away, but in retrospect, I realize how they could have brought us closer.
Keep on keepin' on!!!
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!