If I quit, then they would want to know why since they are paying me for my time. I would have to tell them about their employee, which would likely get him fired.
No way you would 'have to tell them' that level of detail.
Look, if you want to tell everyone how much of a victim you are and how bad a person your W is, then go ahead and do it. But I think that sets a bad example for your son, hurts whatever chance you have at reconciling and will be detrimental to your healing. Just my opinion though.
