Thanks for the update.

Best of luck getting over the injury.

In case your suspicion is right, why would Mrs H be spying on you after all this time. Hmm interesting

Regardless like bttrfly said focus on you. Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together