Wife Wants to Leave Marriage 6

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Getting the divorce papers [censored], no two ways around that. Im sorry for you for having to go through it.

But when it's all said and done at night. You are on a house by yourself.

It is hard, especially at first. But at some point, I found I was able to enjoy the quiet times I had alone. What can you do to make your house and this time your own?

W spared herself that issue by living with her sister. That is how she avoids truly being alone without S13. Without SIL, W would have been ran back home.

Meh. Id say its not worth your effort contemplating any of this. Maybe she needs someone else around. It doesnt really matter.

Surpassed my weight loss goal and now it's time to pack on the muscle and get ripped. Everybody has acknowledged the goal I met and it feels good. I can now fit suits and jeans I haven't worn in years.

Great job!

People mention W and I, but have no clue on what is going on. Or that she has moved out well over a month ago. W continues to keep that's secret from most of our friends and family. Sure she has no issue telling potential OM that she no longer lives with me.

Just feels as if I should let people know what is going on with us. Because people ask how were doing. And I end saying that things are fine. Feels like I just keep covering up for my WW.

I think its OK to say she moved out or that you are having troubles right now. I dont see that as being anything that you need to hide. I wouldnt go into all the details you had mentioned in previous posts as I think thats not your story to tell.

Detaching is getting better, but I feel the weight of everything is on me. And I don't seem to have the convience of having a moment to relax.

Maybe you need to find some ways to relax. Even simple things like meditation apps or taking some quiet time each night could be helpful. If youre upset that you dont have that time, make it a priority to carve it out for yourself.