25 you are entitled to your opinion and I am to mine, so I think the best is to agree to disagree.
I never said that he was ready to take responsibility please read again without jumping to any conclusion.
Did you notice those who are committing acts that are not morally acceptable toward their family usually are withdrawing themselves from others (family, friends...) so they don't have to "talk to them" and sometimes move away so they can start a new life. Did you ever wonder why? They avoid people who have different values/past than them and look for people more like them to connect, why?
Meanwhile it's not because people don't ask questions that they don't think less or have "ideas" or they believe the explanations if any were given.
Me 52+ WH 57+ Married 20 + Piecing since 2016 (ready to give up...)