We saw a counselor before marriage and several time after. I don't want to sound bad but I honestly think she doesn't see it. Even when a counselor tells her we both have to bend and she needs to stop Mothering me and making me someone else. She acknowledges she does that but she does for the better good so omg. I just wanna both bend and meet in middle and be happy. We so opposite. I like to cuddle she's hands off. I like being home, she likes being busy and not being home. On and on and on. Harder than we thought. Wish it were easier
