I remember getting served and it is very emotional and everything is happening so fast but after the D was over it was a relief
But remember,its just a piece of paper..some R get restored after D
I always played the crises down with my kids..I gave them facts if they asked Told them sometimes people go thru crises at this age..Not their fault can't be changed I never spoke any bad words against xh to this day- we prayed for him
I let them know we continue on ..I am always here Now they rarely to never mention him They are really ok- they follow our cue.. they need to know we are OK and we got this and we are here for them
Now the latest new Ive heard through the grapevine is my XH is D I say this to let you know affairs rarely last forever and the percentage of it lasting is low
Hang in there You are strong and will be ok Peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow