Hi

I remember getting served and it is very emotional and everything is happening so fast
but after the D was over it was a relief


But remember,its just a piece of paper..some R get restored after D

I always played the crises down with my kids..I gave them facts if they asked
Told them sometimes people go thru crises at this age..Not their fault
can't be changed
I never spoke any bad words against xh to this day-
we prayed for him

I let them know we continue on ..I am always here
Now they rarely to never mention him
They are really ok-
they follow our cue..
they need to know we are OK and we got this and we are here for them

Now the latest new Ive heard through the grapevine is my XH is D
I say this to let you know affairs rarely last forever
and the percentage of it lasting is low

Hang in there
You are strong and will be ok
Peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow