I know suck it up, act "as if" which I will, It's just so hard to imagine that this is my "new" normal and my kids have to live out of a fricken suitcase.
What mother would want to put their child through something like this and not want to work on it is beyond me.
My WW (when I thought she was a WAS) told me she "accepted" she would only have the kids 50% of the time. At that time, I was thinking WTF...what parent would think that? Now, I know, she was driven by her ego/id/selfishness/rationalization as to do whatever to justify her choices.