Originally Posted By: Btrow

That is by far the smallest sample size I have ever seen wink

Haha! That was not supposed to be any kind of a proof but I felt like after sharing a story like that, I'm supposed to give the "end result". smile

Originally Posted By: Btrow

And you should! Well done for passing it forward. Well done, LC

Thanks! She just thanked me today and said my words are describing her life like 100%. Well, one marriage (probably) saved as an outcome, even if it wasn't mine.

Originally Posted By: Btrow
What would you be doing differently if you weren't DB'ing anymore? You seem to be doing just fine.. Why not continue down that path? You say yourself that you are a new man. A better parent, spend less time in front of the computer. Maybe all that is due to your DB approach of life. Why not continue your improvements?

I will continue trying to improve. I meant it any more, not anymore, hehe. Like should I do something more. MWD describes so many tools but I feel that my marriage is so far from all that.

I was driving back home now at midnight and Pink - What About Us was playing on the radio. Got to admit, I shed a few tears.


In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced
2 young kids
new relationship